Part two of the Blow me for Freedom series. This installment provides a few examples for sexual liberation.

See Part One for the first installment

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So just what are some of the ways we can become less repressed?

Well the easiest start here is to of course correct our take on oral sex.

Men: go down on women. It's that simple, give her a little tongue loving. She will love it, it will make sex last longer, and you increase your odds of getting at least a blow job. "Yeah, but the taste/smell..." Well first of all, the taste/smell is most likely no worse than your unit, so quitcherbitchin'. However, if it is an issue, take a shower with the lady. This may not always be convenient, but it doubles well as excellent foreplay. If the smell/taste is real real bad, make up the best excuse possible (I prefer the old, "Shit my pager is going off, I have to get back to the hospital" line myself..), and RUN. There is something wrong here, and you don't want to put your schwanz there anyways in that case. If you really like her, maybe suggest a good Gynecologist....

And ladies, if your man doesn't go down on you, bitch slap him. Or at least say something to the effect of "Look fool if you ever want head, start lickin'" After all, turnabout is fair play. But remember, this is a two way road. Also don't feel like just because you are giving the guy head, it has to be one way. For example, there is no law requiring you to swallow, spit, or for that matter, even finish him off with your mouth. You have a lot of options, and its honestly best to discuss these with your boy.

If you are opposed to swallowing, consider the spit method. Give thought to clean up, and discuss it ahead of time if need be. You would be surprised how co-operative a guy can be in these matters. Of course to be fair the spit method is in and of itself just ridiculous. If you are taking a shot in the mouth, the taste is there either way, might as well just save everyone the cleanup and swallow. But who says you have to deal with that at all? If you really don't want to deal with the taste of baby-batter, use this as simple foreplay, and finish him off in other ways. A great way is the handjob, but again, verify clean up methods first.

Which brings me to my next point, the handjob. This seems to be a lost art with most girls, and thats just amazing. You're in a tough spot, blowjobs aren't an option at the moment, and sex just isn't convenient. Do you dry-hump the poor bastard and leave him with blue balls? Do you shut it down before it gets started and fall victim yourself? No! There is always the handjob. Men are pretty easy in this department. Just like a man will always take a blowjob if he can't have sex, a man will always take a handjob if he can't have the blowjob. Hell, there are times when that may be just what the guy wanted anyways. Just remember that when giving a handjob, handle with care. Lubrication is not needed, but without it you must be careful, that skin is very sensitive and prone to chafing. If you do need/want lubrication, a lot of spit works very well.

So far you may feel like I am saying that women need all the improvement and men are just dandy. To be fair, men tend to be a little more sexually open then women, but that doesn't mean there isn't room for improvement.

One of the areas that men seem to be most repressed is in their mouths. Namely, they don't open them often enough. It's all well and good to want blowjobs, and I see no reason to not blast a girl in the face every now and then, but there is a step most men seem to skip.

Expressing what you want.

It really does you no good to occasionally suggest in a joking manner that your lady friend allow another girl into bed with you. If you really want that threesome, you gotta speak up boy. Explain to her that a threesome is something you want, and give her reasons why. Re-assure her that your feelings for her will be only stronger after joining you in this venture. Let her know that you are going into it as partners, and that the other girl is more of a sexual aid and experience, and that it's sex, not a competition or comparison.

You will discover that if you take this approach for all things that fall out of normal bed room play (threeways, tit-fucking, anal, bondage, toys, etc) that you are more likely to not only get that which you want, but that she will go into it more comfortable and most likely enjoy the experience.

Of course if talking to her doesn't work, there is always plan B. In a non obvious way avoid sex with her for a bit. Interrupt any routine you may have going. Then get her so drunk she is agreeing to anything just to get some dick. That works too, plus you can usually slip in a few other no-nos while you are doing the deed.

Stay tuned for the third, and final installment in the Blow me for Freedom series: Shaking off the shackles outside of the bedroom.